Stop Chasing Inbox Zero: Hien Nguyen on Relationships as Your Real Business Asset
Jul 13, 2026
What if inbox zero is the wrong goal entirely? In this episode of Build With What You Know, I sit down with Hien Nguyen, founder of Sidekick Log by Screate, who is building a lightweight AI tool that treats your inbox as a map of relationships rather than a list of tasks to clear.
We cover why relationships — not messages — drive business forward, how founders can protect their focus by starting each day from their calendar, why a local-first architecture matters for data privacy, and Hien's journey from running a community-led growth agency in Vietnam to building software products for founders globally.
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Hi. Okay, so before we jump on any
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symbol
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any frameworks, I would love to share
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how we
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are building Psychic Lab and how it's
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used on my day-to-day running my own
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company life. So, here
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Do you see my screen, Yan?
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>> Yes.
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I can see.
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>> So, what I would do is
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this is very fun, by the way.
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This is This is what I open
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my morning every single day. So, I have
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a CEO schedule, I would say. This is my
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how my week looks like on Monday, most
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of them will be how I, you know,
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strategize about how I take my company
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forwards with
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customer success and metrics. So, I
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would block this entire thing,
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you know, just to look at all the
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metrics,
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the customer research, the bio trigger,
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average list, and a bunch of them. I
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look at the magic to see where we are,
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and then I'm planning the rest of my day
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to
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achieve that goal.
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So, that's what my Monday is. Monday is
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CEO day.
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And then Tuesday, I would say it's for
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strictly building. So, I would block the
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entire day, not helping any calls at
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all, just go fixing the product product,
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fixing bugs, and detecting, you know,
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quality and all.
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So, I would rarely do anything on this
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day, you know, outside of building the
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product. And then some of day
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uh the next day would be studio
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recording, hopping on podcast, writing
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down. I'm going on a little content walk
1:59
to actually produce a lot of insight.
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And I'm going to get to this like maybe
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in another episode of how I actually
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think and positioning myself because I
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came from that background, right? But
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that day is for organizing my thoughts
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and making it into an intellectual that
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I can share.
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Um and then Thursday would be mostly for
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calls like this that we are having, user
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calls, CTM, community audit, you know.
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And then Friday would be my last day to
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wrap up all the products and maybe
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hopping on calls if I have any. But
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yeah, usually it would just, you know,
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finishing demo and the ship the
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distribution and all. So, that's how my
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day look like.
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I don't work on Sundays. I don't work
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Usually I would work on Saturday a
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little bit uh in the morning, but that
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would be it.
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So, this is how I run my day my week.
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And for day-to-day basis,
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I have this thing where
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um you remember the Monday, right?
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So,
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how do you I know if my business is
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going exactly where I want it to be?
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So, I use Psychic Law and my Gmail on
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top of it. I don't know if I can share
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my Gmail here.
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Um
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but uh here is a quick look into
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what we are building here at Psychic
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Law.
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So, imagine this left side, you know, is
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your Gmail.
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And it's a
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it's a thread it's a list of all the
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email thread going on, you know,
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unsynchronized.
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And instead of living into another
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platform, I would just say, "Hey, why
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don't you open your sidebar?" And, you
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know,
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think about it.
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And every morning,
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um, Psychic Rock will have this two-day
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briefing. It show you what email is
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focusing to help your business grow. So,
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for example here, we have
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>> [laughter]
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>> Altman, um, asking for AI product
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roadmap. This is examples, okay? Um,
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he is waiting on your replies, or
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someone from the YC community, they
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asking for an update on your product,
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and then,
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you know, someone is you hiring a
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product lead role, and it's also show
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here. So, all of your, you know, the the
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most conversations about your customer,
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your partners, anything that drive your
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business forward, they are here. The
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very first thing to see,
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um,
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before you begin to dive deep into
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anything. And then here we have
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>> This tool is creating a to-do list based
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on your email inbox.
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>> Not to-do list, this is conversation.
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This is actual conversation in email
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itself.
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Because the underlying assumption is
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relationships
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are the one who are driving your
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business forward, not, you know, another
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task on your list. Because, guess what?
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The task is just the artifact of the
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conversation that you had with the
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people. So, that's how I think about it
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when I build this thing. We We can get
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into it later, but that's how, you know,
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relationship is like the backbone of
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this product. So, instead of looking at,
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you you
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your messages or your email as a unit of
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work. I take a look at the relationship
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of the people you have in your own
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inbox. And that's what Psychic Logic is
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different from every AI, you know, inbox
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assistant out there is that they focus
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on your relationship and helping you
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prioritizing the conversation that
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matter the most.
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So, this is example for founder only.
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But we have
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um a lot of the 9-5 very good operators
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that have been using Psychic Logic and,
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you know, get great return on it. They
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reported to me every single day. Like
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they say, "Oh my god, it just found me
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something that I didn't know."
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So, that that has been great. Yeah. But
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uh our our our target audience would be
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like founders who are running, you know,
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fundraising or a small business owner
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who are overwhelmed with the volumes of
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messages that they have and they need a
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tool
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um a lightweight tool to help they see
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it better in their own inbox without
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living
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in their inbox. So, that's what we do
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it.
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And beside from the briefing, which give
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you like a very quick, you know, look
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into your and if you done replying or
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opening in Gmail to take a look, you can
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get it done and it's instantly clear,
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you know. And then it keeps you on top
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of your inbox as well
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um cuz it's a always-on, you know,
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Chrome extension. It's helping you to
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see what's next without you having to
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reload it every time. So, I think it's a
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great way that uh our product has been
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able to do this without. And then here's
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what I say about like the relationship
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as a backbone of Psychic Logic is that
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we have a look into what that
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conversation
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is about, like what that threat is, and
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from the first interaction to the latest
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email that they send. So, how many
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interaction were there, you know? So,
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you you can be able to have like a a map
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into your own relationship with those
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people.
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And finally, I think this one is nobody
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has done it before, is like a direct
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look
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at how valuable your inbox is.
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Because
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usually, people are
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measuring, you know,
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the productivity of their, you know, of
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their work
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is by how many messages that have they
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tackle off their to-do list. But when we
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think about it, we think about how
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how many relationship you keep preserve
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momentum. For example, today call is our
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first interaction, right? But what if
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this led to many, many more, you know,
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interaction? Perhaps we can jump on
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another calls, or we can you we we can
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do other collabs. So, that's how I think
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about when I build this thing.
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So,
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you can have the outcome per thread.
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You can exactly say, "Okay, so this one
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conversation helped me,
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you know, drive more deals,
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drive more customer, drive more
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partnership." And that's how I think
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about when we quantify the values in our
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own inbox.
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And and yeah, you can have like AI
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feature to make it even better.
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And
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connected inbox.
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But yeah,
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more inboxes, maybe from your work, from
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your personal one.
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Right now, we are supporting two
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accounts. But yes, that's how I think
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about it.
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And what I would do is I recommend
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people to
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um start planning it into your day
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by opening your calendar knowing exactly
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that day objective or that whole week
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objective, right? And then
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before you opening any app, opening your
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email with side clock besides. So you
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know exactly what your relationship up
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played out and how is your business is
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going. Are you leaving someone on read?
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Or are you actually having a really good
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conversation with them about this deal
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coming up? So that's how I think about,
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you know, like reserving momentum,
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relationship, and as well as economic
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values
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in in your own inbox. And I think that's
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a new way of
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of thinking, of of communicating.
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Yeah.
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>> Exactly. Actually, I see a lot of um
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uh AI tools that are
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also doing that, not only doing that,
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but also trying to become a kind of
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second brain to manage your inbox,
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um
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create a summaries every morning of
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emails you have to answer, trying to
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show what are the most important, least
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important, but usually these are kind of
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big tools that require a lot of uh
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a lot of time to set them up
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to customize them to your needs. And
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your tool is more simple, right?
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>> Yeah.
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It's very lightweight because um
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I instead of like
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having to jump on user call often
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I actually came from the background of
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working with
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broad founders, entrepreneurs, and
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business owner from like way back. So, I
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have that frontier looks into how they
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actually run their own business.
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And back in I was running my own agency,
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like we specialized in community led
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growth. So, we were serving clients
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of like
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Yamaha Music Vietnam and we were working
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on the budget campaigns here in Vietnam.
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But, we were also having like
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inbound interest of like, "Hey, can you
12:04
be a marketing partner for us?" And that
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was coming from our overseas Vietnamese
12:10
founder that are struggling to
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to to really find their footing in the
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cross-border
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businesses. So, they have great
12:20
expertise, but they didn't know how to
12:23
take it into that advantage. So, I came
12:26
in, I tweaked their positioning, and
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helped them really discover their unique
12:32
advantage before they can help them
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scale their social growth. So, that's
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what we did back in the day. So, that's
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why I think when I approach from
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building a tech company now, everything
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about filtering noise
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and increasing that leverage that
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business owner, entrepreneur, and
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founder that they have. Because think
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about it,
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we don't like features. We don't like
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more noise. Actually, we have more than
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enough. That's why I take a look at my
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calendar and not anything else
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because my calendar is the 24-hour block
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that's limited.
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So, when I take a look at like
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if you're not on my calendar,
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it's not locked.
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So, that's how I think about it and a
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and a lot of my other founders,
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they also look at their calendar that
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way.
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That's their operating system. That's
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their layer
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to run their own business.
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And when I know, okay, so they take a
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look at their calendar, they protect
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their time, they focus.
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So what? Why do we still have
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a ton of messages going on that's
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booming like crazy every single hour?
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And then I
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I think when I started in like 2025,
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when I first had this idea, it was
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because
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holy like
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why a lot of the other companies are
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optimizing for inbox zero?
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When relationship communication is a
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living thing.
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Think about it.
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You You meet new people every day.
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And every single one of them drive more
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conversations.
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Let's say, "Hey, I'm thinking about you
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for these opportunities, right?" But why
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do we treat it like as a to-do list that
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we check it off?
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But this to-do list is never going to
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check off because
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it's a living thing.
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So that was my first breakthrough of
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realization of like, "Holy like
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why do they behave that way?" And that
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made me, you know, to building this
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thing from
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"Hey, how about we just
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build this from what we imagine our
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inbox could be." So that was drive me
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into building this thing.
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Yeah.
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>> Exactly. Me, too. Actually, I tailor
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everything based on my calendar
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availability. So your tool actually does
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it start from the calendar? Does it
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analyze the calendar? Or it only
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analyzes the emails?
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>> Right now, it's only focusing on email.
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But as I said, it's it becoming a
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essential tool for you to start your own
15:28
morning routine. And coming from my
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observation from founders and even my
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way of running my company, so that I
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knew like calendar and email would be
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like the two most essential things for
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any modern business. So, right now we
15:47
focus on Gmail, right? Because it's the
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most valuable and most I would say the
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most densest um
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places to store all of your company
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information.
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But, later on, yes, we will have to
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support calendar. But, uh in order to
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expand to that new capabilities, we have
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to actually stabilize and make sure that
16:12
user are getting enough values from
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this. So, this is my current uh
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experiment with Psychic Logic is that we
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help them find values in their own
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inbox. And then later on, yes, we will
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add more integration and all.
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>> For example, your tool helps uh
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resurfacing conversations that we might
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have forgotten.
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And it's all based on the value
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given to
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uh
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specific conversations.
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>> Sorry.
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Is that a question?
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>> Yes, your tool gives value to each
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conversation
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based on various criteria.
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>> I would say we make the relationship
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state finally visible. So, for example,
17:04
before Psychic Logic,
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people don't know what
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their conversation holds, you know.
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>> Mhm.
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>> So, how do they know they have same
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Altman in their inbox?
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How do they know like they have YC and
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all this that this is incredible to
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look at?
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And some people they even connected
17:26
while ago and but they forgot. You know,
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okay, we had a conversation we left them
17:31
on read, but we thought that they left
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it on read.
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So, it was
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a mental juggling of like who is doing
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what.
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And I talked to many founders and
17:45
operator and they have that thing where
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they don't know like did I reply to that
17:50
person?
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So, it's actually before psychic lock
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there was none of that. People keep
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everything inside their head and they
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check as soon as the new emails, the new
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conversation coming in.
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But with psychic lock now, what we do is
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we keep track it for you. You don't have
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to do that anymore. We reduce the load
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of how your attention should be. Um so,
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for example, like I said like we have uh
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the messages, the most important
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messages coming up first so you can
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prioritize and then the rest you can
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take a look or you can just go and skip
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it.
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So, as the way that I see it is in the
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AI era,
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you cannot optimize for more
18:39
output if your input is limited and that
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input is our attention,
18:46
our mo- momentum,
18:48
our judgment. So, psychic lock is
18:51
actually here to protect you from that.
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Yeah.
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>> Oh.
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Okay. And
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what are your plans for the future?
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Which functionalities will you add to
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your tool?
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>> So, our road map, I would say
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right now we are focusing on um
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you know, stabilizing the
19:18
the new capabilities in the inside
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inbox. And later on we will be adding
19:23
more email clients into this. So, I
19:25
would say Outlook, I would say
19:27
Superhuman and other popular email
19:29
clients out there. So, people don't have
19:31
to switch
19:33
to Gmail or a new a email clients. So,
19:37
that our first plans. The second would
19:39
be is how we consistently improve the
19:43
semantic classification inside the
19:46
engine itself. Because right now, I I
19:49
don't I wouldn't say
19:51
the whole architecture how we build
19:53
this, but um we are not just using AI.
19:57
There's a architecture underneath that
20:00
are sorting through all the signal
20:03
coming from your um emails. And we would
20:06
love to even tweak it, fine-tune it a
20:08
little bit more until we
20:11
uh as we, you know, expand to new
20:14
platform. That would be the next
20:16
bottleneck of like standard standardized
20:19
the data pipeline coming from each
20:21
platforms. And um people have been
20:25
asking me to uh adding more platform.
20:30
So, like WhatsApp, think about WhatsApp,
20:32
think about calendar, think about
20:35
um you know, all of them messages out
20:38
there, Telegram even. Yeah. But
20:41
uh that would be ambitious, you know.
20:44
So, we take it one step at a time
20:46
focusing on what was
20:49
work best for us right now.
20:51
And the reason why we started with email
20:54
instead of the chat conversation is that
20:59
email is the most dense is
21:02
information
21:04
holder
21:06
>> Mhm.
21:06
>> across your company.
21:09
And every single relationship, every
21:12
single like formalized
21:15
contracts, partnership, everything, they
21:17
go into email.
21:19
So, that's why we choose email to start
21:21
with.
21:23
And we would keep it that way.
21:25
And the way um our our user have been
21:28
phrasing us is that um
21:32
our architecture is entirely local
21:35
first.
21:36
And what it means by that is it
21:38
protecting your data
21:42
um by having your data stored on your
21:45
browser, on your device only. So,
21:48
nothing sent to us.
21:50
And no cloud, you know, partners or
21:54
agent will be able to touch your data.
21:57
So, this is our our you really unique
21:59
advantage compared to everyone else. I
22:01
would say everyone else, every AI and
22:04
bot assistant out there who are running
22:06
on servers and, you know,
22:09
they they have a ton of infrastructure
22:10
everything on.
22:12
Yeah, so that's how I I would say that
22:14
we are go doing it the very uh
22:17
user-first way.
22:20
Yeah.
22:21
>> Actually, that's was my next question.
22:22
How do you handle user data,
22:26
especially user data privacy, and where
22:29
is are these emails
22:32
treated? Because um
22:34
so, you have a system
22:36
that analyzes emails, but
22:39
on the your user data
22:41
>> Locally.
22:42
Yeah, locally.
22:44
And uh I would say right now the local
22:47
first architecture protects the user
22:51
you know, data from being sent to any of
22:54
our service provider.
22:56
Um and also to us.
22:59
Cuz I a lot of people come came to us
23:01
and they'd be like, "Okay, how do you
23:03
how do you handle my data? I don't trust
23:05
you with my data. And do you have this
23:08
certification SOC 2 or whatever?" And I
23:12
say, "Yeah, eventually we're going to
23:15
have, but actually right now we don't
23:17
need those certification to prove that
23:20
our privacy is, you know, is good.
23:23
Um the local first architecture itself
23:25
is protecting you from us and
23:29
everything.
23:30
And one thing I want to note is
23:34
we still use AI. And which part of the
23:37
data goes into AI is that
23:40
we engineer it in the way that only your
23:44
headlines and your snippets of the
23:47
emails
23:49
and only the necessary parts to analyze
23:52
the intent of the email goes to AI.
23:55
But the rest of that, we don't read your
23:57
whole email, we don't read your
24:00
private attachment, we don't read
24:03
anything at all.
24:05
So
24:06
um
24:07
we're still finding a way uh to to make
24:11
it more explicit for people to be fully
24:14
aware before they're signing, you know,
24:16
to our platform.
24:18
But um yeah, that's how I think about
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it. I think the transparency and just
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being user first and
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and be honest about where we are doing
24:28
now and what is coming coming is going
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to be the most, you know,
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helpful to us.
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>> And maybe before we conclude, could you
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share your top five tips for a proper
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inbox management?
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>> Um I would say first of all is
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scratch the inbox zero goal because
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there's no inbox zero goal.
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Okay? When I think about my own inbox, I
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think about
25:00
did I get in back get back to the people
25:04
that matter the most.
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So, as long as most of my relationship
25:09
are intact, I would ignore everything
25:11
else. I don't care if I left anyone on
25:13
red accidentally because if the
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conversation ended it ended, you know?
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It's no no need to to to send another
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message just to, you know, to close that
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conversation.
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But, I would just going from the
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objective, you know, protecting your
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relationship, protecting your focus.
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And then the second I would say is
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removing a lot of tools.
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I would say because being aware of the
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platform data usage nowadays is um
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it is one thing to be considered because
25:51
as you using a lot of these tools
25:54
you have to really take a look at how
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that they use your data before you jump
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on and use their their own platform.
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That I would just say yeah, two things.
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Um and I'm going to share I'm going to
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continue to sharing all my you know, how
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I run my companies as a AI native uh
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company.
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Um with my calendar, my emails, and how
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I operate um through an insane high
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values com- communication later on.
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If you're interested in any of that, we
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can deep tackle deep diver into it.
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Uh but yeah.
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I hope that was helpful.
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>> Yes, it was. Thanks a lot, Hien.
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>> Yes.
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Okay.
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